45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

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1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends.It       makes her feel loved.

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
(One last thing you need to do to show her
you actually do mean it.)



21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car – it
makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts
to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything – only if you
mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her – if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO    TALK ABOUT  IT – so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

(WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND
KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US)

26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning
and tell her have a good day at school, and
how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the
hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.



36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you
love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.

41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her. You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love ..

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Its all about life
Sure u gonna fall
Mistakes will be done
But that shouldn't drop the spirit
Still more to achieve......

THE NIGERIAN UNION OF JOURNALISTS (NUJ)

             HISTORICAL BACKGROUND OF THE NIGERIAN UNION OF JOURNALISTSThe Nigerian Union of Journalists (NUJ), was founded on March 15th 1955 in Lagos, the then Capital City of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.The union had some early nationalists with the fire of patriotism and nationalism burning in them and their writings included the first Governor General of Nigeria, the late Owelle of Onitsha, the Rt Hon (Dr.) Nnamdi Azikiwe, the first Premier of the defunct Western Region, the late Chief Obafemi Awolowo, the late Sardauna of Sokoto, Sir Ahmadu Bello and Alhaji Tafawa Balewa; the late Herbert Macaulay and Chief H. O. Davies who, with the launch of the Yoruba vernacular newspaper “Iwe Irohin ni Ede Yoruba”, founded by the late Rev. Ajayi Crowther in Abeokuta, in 1929, wrote powerfully, in their newspapers, columns on the need for Nigeria's self-rule.The NUJ's birth was linked to the struggle for the independence of Nigeria. The struggle, it would be recalled gave birth to many protest groups, all yearning for the country's independence from the British. The groups came in various shades. Some were political in nature, like the Nigerian Youth Movement, a platform for the nationalists. Others were trade unions and professional groups. It was established by some early Nationalists for an independent Nigeria via the power of the pen.However,between 1961-1969,the union failed to operate as a trade union and this lead to the union's name being removed from the list of the registered trade unionsOne of the observations of the Abiodun Panel in the Restructuring of Trade Unions was the lack of wherewithal as a union and this led to the demand that full time staff of all trade unions must have some trade union experience and also be imbued with the knowledge of the industry in which they operateBetween 1961 - 1969 the Union's name was struck out from the list of the registered Trade Unions,this was because the Union had failed to operate as a trade Union. Attempts to reregister the union was embarked upon in 1973 but failed due to some changes in the law system.The union remained de-registered and operated as a mere professional body till 1977 when the Abiodun Trade Union Restructuring Panel embarked on the industrialization of trade unions in the country.The NUJ would have missed the opportunity but for the efforts of some journalists in Lagos and the old Western Region who used the pages of their newspapers to draw attention to the NUJ. Through their efforts, the NUJ and other unions which had been deregistered before the exercise were included and got carried along in the Abiodun programme. Alhaji Lateef Jakande facilitated the early launch of the second council and he is involved in the lagos union.The union now operates 37 state councils, eight zones, 740 chapels and affiliate bodies like Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), Nigerian Guild of Editors and the Sports Writers Association of Nigeria (SWAN) with the headquarters at the Federal Capital Territory which serves as the national secretariat. Before the 1977 amendments and the appointment of fulltime national secretary, the union operated a mobile secretariat whereby the secretary resided there, the secretariat was located.
THE NIGERIAN UNION OF JOURNALIST PAST AND PRESENT LEADERSMobolaji Odunewu 1951-1959Peter Ayeni 1970-1972Alhaji Saka Fagbo 1972-1973Chief Abimbola Odunlami 1973-1975Alhaji Sidi Ali-Sirajo 1975-1977Chief Micheal B. Asaju 1977-1980Alhaji Bola Adedoja 1980-1985Chief George Izobo 1985-1989Alh. Moh'd Sani Zorro 1990-1994Comrade Ladi Lawal 1994-1995Mr. Bonnie C. Iwuoha 1996-1997Lanre Ogundipe 1997-1999Prince Smart Adeyemi 1999-2006Akwu Ndagene Ndamele 2006-2009Comrade Mohammed Garba 2009-till date
MISSION AND VISION STATEMENT
Journalism entails a high degree of public trust. To earn and maintain this trust, it is morally imperative for every journalist and every news medium to observe the highest professional and ethical standards. In the exercise of these duties, a journalist should always have a healthy regard for the public interest. Truth is the cornerstone of journalism and every journalist should strive diligently and every journalist should strive to ascertain the truth of every event.

THE NIGERIAN UNION OF JOURNALISM LIST SOME CODE OF ETHICS FOR NIGERIAN JOURNALISTS
Journalism entails a high degree of public trust. To earn and maintain this trust, it is morally imperative for every journalist and every news medium to observe the highest professional and ethical standards. In the exercise of these duties, a journalist should always have a healthy regard for the public interest.Truth is the cornerstone of journalism and every journalist should strive diligently to ascertain the truth of every event.Conscious of the responsibilities and duties of journalists as purveyors of information, we, Nigerian journalists, give to ourselves this Code of Ethics. It is the duty of every journalist to observe its provisions. EDITORIAL INDEPENDENCE
Decisions concerning the content of news should be the responsibility of a professional journalist.


ACCURACY AND FAIRNESS
PRIVACY
PRIVILEGE/NON-DISCLOSUREDECENCYDISCRIMINATION
REWARD AND GRATIFICATION VIOLENCE
CHILDREN AND MINORS
ACCESS TO INFORMATION 
PUBLIC INTERESTSOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY PLAGIARISM
COPYRIGHT
PRESS FREEDOM AND RESPONSIBILITY

MAVIN RECORDS

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All look good with great talents,

With thy sexy female act......

NIGERIA

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Nigeria....

A country blessed with natural resources

A country filled with lovely people

A country with pride

A country admired by all

Nigeria...

The Giant of Africa

Where is thy natural resources?

Where is thy lovely people?

People with lovely faces and mind?

People with great minds n pride?

People to take us to the promise land?

Nigeria......

We all lay our head on your laps

But scared in mind

We don't know whats next

Is this how you'll watch your children suffer?

And cry for what they know not?............

Media Organisation Analysis

The media organisation I have chosen is Rhythm 93.7 FM, a radio station owned by the Silverbird Group. It has a branch in Lagos and some other part of the country like Port-Harcourt.

Home Page

The home page of the Rhythm FM has great features with highly nourished contents of what the company stands for- entertainment!  

The homepage has a touch of light blue with some graphics to get the attention of the visitor. At the top is the logo of the station, with the page features horizontally arranged below in tabs for easy access which include; Home, Blogs, Advertising, OAPs and DJs,  Music,  Videos, Contests, Forum, Contact, Photos.

Immediately below the above mentioned features are slide show of pictures of events, celebrities and on-air personality (OAP) of the radio station. Next to it at the left side are social networks; facebook and twitter for fans of the station to follow or like. Other things that can be seen on the home page are; new programmes on Rhythm, Musical Playlist, advert rate card download, twitter handle and rhythm show blogs.

Blogs

This is another feature provided by the rhythm website. Here the page visitors get to read about different topics written by OAPs just by selecting any desired topic provided. They also get to read news stories, gist, sports, entertainment and so on.

Advert Bookings

For me, I think this feature is one of the best things I have seen so far because it provides easy medium for the radio station patronisers to get in touch with the station when they want to advertise. By just selecting the advert booking is done in seconds.

OAPs and DJs

One good thing about this feature is that you get to know more about DJs and OAPs , from their background to actually seeing what they look like so that when you see them, you can identify them. I think this feature is just a way of bringing the presenter and the DJs closer to the listeners.

Music/ Video/ Photos

Here you get to listen or watch the latest musical video and audio from artiste all around the world. You also get to see pictures of places and personalities.

Contests

This feature is one strategy rhythm is using to hold its audience by offering out free gift to fans where questions are asked about OAPs, DJs and the organisation itself.

Contact

This provides the page visitor to send mail or get the address of Rhythm.

However, after proper analyses of the features provided by the Rhythm on their website, I think the page needs more content like a tab live radio broadcast, page design and more entertainment gist. Rhythm is known to be an entertainment station with more music less talk but entertaining its fans is not about the music alone but by provide gist about the artiste behind a song.

I think with my suggestion above, if considered rhythm will have more people visiting its page.

 

Flood,Lagos and her Residents

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Lagos is a very low lying State, relatively flat in topography, near the Coast (Atlantic Ocean) and is served by many Rivers as well as lagoons. Under normal circumstances, when water is to flow by natural means, (that is under the force of gravity), it does so from a higher level to a lower level. 

It is now no doubt that a heavy downpour of rain would cause flood.

Nevertheless, Lagosians are the major cause of the present state they find themselves. You ask me why, that is because they never stop dumping refuse into the drains, which sometimes do not get cleared as often as they should. 

Also people construct buildings along natural drainage routes and on flood plains. 

More so, many Nigerian roads have challenges of poor materials utilised for construction, poor design as well as poor supervision of coordination. There is the need to let people know that they have to change their orientation towards waste disposal. There should be enlightenment campaign to this effect. Drainage design can be changed in some heavily built areas of the city to meet disposal needs of the people. There could be open drains and covered drains to serve different areas of the metropolis.

If proper steps are taken, i believe flood will reduce in Lagos and water borne infections will be averted .